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My boyfriend came to this past PDF. He died last week. I am very sad.
I have searched as best I could, but I was hoping to enlist some help in finding any photos of him from the event. Could all of you who took photos of people spinning fire in the area near PEX on Friday night please check and see if you have or might have any of him? He spun a lot there that night, using all sorts of things - poi, staff, double staff, a dart, poi with three wicks... I don't know what else. I do know that a smallish girl took some good photos of him there... He was wearing, probably, I think, camo cargo pants with a tank top and then without, and a black leather do-rag type thing. If I could find more photos of him... well, it would mean a lot to me. I love him so much, and he is gone, and I am having a hard time with it, and pictures of him doing his favoritest thing ever would be cheery.
And, damn, I have never before wished so hard that the naked slip 'n slide had some illegal picture taker there taking pictures of people's faces - that was so wonderful for him. The look on his face when he was running - so very serious, you know? Like a kid. It was great. I smile thinking about it, which is pretty impressive right now.
Here is his obituary, which has a photo of his face. He was probably 5' 9, and strong and muscley. He had a tribal sort of tattoo on his right shoulder, a few small facial piercings, a dark brown curly jew-fro mohawk, an amazing smile and eyes that just lit up.
www.legacy.com/Burlington...tuaries.asp
Also, Saturday he spent quite awhile sunburning while flying a sea horse kite in front of the stage. If anybody had any great moments or whatever with him and wants to share them with me, that would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks for your help. If healing happens as it should, I will see you all at pdf in the fall.
Love,
Kelly
I have searched as best I could, but I was hoping to enlist some help in finding any photos of him from the event. Could all of you who took photos of people spinning fire in the area near PEX on Friday night please check and see if you have or might have any of him? He spun a lot there that night, using all sorts of things - poi, staff, double staff, a dart, poi with three wicks... I don't know what else. I do know that a smallish girl took some good photos of him there... He was wearing, probably, I think, camo cargo pants with a tank top and then without, and a black leather do-rag type thing. If I could find more photos of him... well, it would mean a lot to me. I love him so much, and he is gone, and I am having a hard time with it, and pictures of him doing his favoritest thing ever would be cheery.
And, damn, I have never before wished so hard that the naked slip 'n slide had some illegal picture taker there taking pictures of people's faces - that was so wonderful for him. The look on his face when he was running - so very serious, you know? Like a kid. It was great. I smile thinking about it, which is pretty impressive right now.
Here is his obituary, which has a photo of his face. He was probably 5' 9, and strong and muscley. He had a tribal sort of tattoo on his right shoulder, a few small facial piercings, a dark brown curly jew-fro mohawk, an amazing smile and eyes that just lit up.
www.legacy.com/Burlington...tuaries.asp
Also, Saturday he spent quite awhile sunburning while flying a sea horse kite in front of the stage. If anybody had any great moments or whatever with him and wants to share them with me, that would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks for your help. If healing happens as it should, I will see you all at pdf in the fall.
Love,
Kelly
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Sun, June 21, 2009 - 5:54 PMKelly-
I am so, so sorry to hear of Zach's death. I saw him with his kite for a bit on Saturday, but never talked to him. Even from a distance, he seemed like a beautiful spirit and now I truly wish I had at least said hello.
I wish you peace and good memories.
Hugs,
Jill
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Sun, June 21, 2009 - 9:35 PMKelly, I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Zach, but from his picture I do remember him at the Slip and Slide. I'm glad that he got to experience another wonderful PDF. This community is here to support you. Please message me if you need to talk, scream, or just BE. May peace wind its way into your heart.
-Kate
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Mon, June 22, 2009 - 9:35 AMSuch sad news, Kelly. I wish I had photos to give you - my boyfriend also died suddenly, a few years ago - right after our first Burning Man. Hugs and healing to you!
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Mon, June 22, 2009 - 4:43 PMKelly, I am so sorry to hear this. I don't think I ever met Zach and that makes me twice as sad.
xoxoxo
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Mon, June 22, 2009 - 5:21 PMKelly,
I'm so sorry to hear about this. I don't remember if I met Zach or not, maybe cooked something
for him in the pavilion? If you want we could have a time of remembrance like we did for
Johnny B.
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Tue, June 23, 2009 - 10:08 AMSo sorry to hear of your loss. I scoured my pictures and sadly have none of Zach. I hope your able to find some from someone.
- TheMadHatter
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 10:20 AMSorry for your loss. I saw him spin. I really hope Abject got some good pics. -
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 12:02 PMAbject has about 1000 images from Friday night. I looked through them and didn't spot him but I could have missed something.
public.fotki.com/abjectpho...09-friday/
Unfortunately due to camera trouble I couldn't shoot at all for almost all of Friday night. So I have nothing.
Though I did not catch him, I did get his wonderful kite though:
www.flickr.com/photos/lar...8944834142/
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 5:09 PMWow, thank you for looking - I am going to keep hoping someone will stumble across this post and be the one who has a picture of him...
Thank you all for your love and support. It really does help.
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 5:46 PMNot thanks necessary... its my pleasure.
Apparently my eyes are not as good as I thought. I ran another pass through Abject's photos. I found this:
public.fotki.com/abjectpho...01134.html
I'm assuming thats him.
Thats the first one I found, they continue onto the next page, and if he lit up several times he'll probably appear again later in the set.
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 6:26 PMOh, and click "thumbnails" above the image, scroll down to the bottom of that page, and they continue onto the next page. -
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 7:34 PMWow. I cannot say thank you enough, those are amazing. I know he is just another guy to everyone else, but to me he was the world, and seeing him spin fire was --- he was most alive when he played with fire, you know? God, I miss him so much.
Thank you.
Now off to bed with sleepy me - eating and sleeping, these are my current life goals. Thank you for finding these pictures, with which I will attempt to fill my dreams.
I am so appreciative, really, you have no idea. Thank you.
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 8:57 PM
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 9:13 PMI'm glad I could help.
Those are good goals. Thats all you need to do for now.
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 8:27 PMLars is the BEST photo editor everyone should hire him as photog and editor, we love him, esp if you're male and spin fire nude, well at least for me, its eye candy possibly more nude female fire spinners for lars.
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 9:05 PMThanks abject. And yes, my fire nudes this year lacked the female form BIG TIME. Ce la vis.
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Thu, June 25, 2009 - 7:29 AMhaha I am not happy with the weight I have gained. It is coming off slowly. Maybe when my muscles are nice and toned and I have my six pack stomach back. -
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 8:23 AMWhenever you feel like you're ready, I'm always willing to oblige.
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Sat, July 25, 2009 - 6:35 AMI am so sorry to hear about your loss.....
Im praying maybe i have one.....#4452 .... smsladybugg.winkflash.com in the folder "2009 05 21 to 24 Public PDF"
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Re: Zach died - I'm looking for photos
Tue, July 28, 2009 - 3:15 PMSue, Zach has been identified by Lars here is a better shot of him:
public.fotki.com/abjectpho...01156.html
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